Do you approach life with an enthusiasm that makes you anticipate the experiences God has for you?

I can easily fall into the trap in the first example. Fortunately, my church has four services. If i get a negative experience, i go back again and make sure i understand what the pastor said. I think the book of James gives the appropriate guidance in this situation. James 1:19 Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Usually when i go back the second or third time i realize that I misunderstood something and everything is fine. I also think at least sometimes it is spiritual attack.