Ex boyfriend troubles! plz help?

ok, my ex boyfriend (scorpio) use to call me (Aries) all the time to talk about nothing and everything. Mostly of him trying to be my boyfriend again. I never gave in because he'd never changed from his controlling and jealous ways. Funny how that and more drew me into his web wen i first met him. I knew it something dangerous and dark about him. But it was so enticing to me I just had to have him. Anyway, recently I dumped my current boyfriend for him and was going to him (scorpio) at 11:50 Dec. 30, 2009 to be mine again because he was suppose to be single from wat he kept telling me. Anyway, I went on his myspace page to look at his new pix and I saw him and this girl together on his comments and she was saying how she loved him and they were gonna be together forever and blah blah blah. And my world just crashed, I called him and told him about it. And I felt in my heart he was lying to me about her. He even told me to call her and ask her. So I did and she was like yeah they are together. So i'm like y would u tell me to call her knowing she would say that. And wat made it worst was, I have so much more to offer him than her. I mean I have no kids (she does), I'm in college (she doesn't go), I look wayyyyyy better. I have my life together. Obviously, she doesn't. So I've tried texting him and he texts me back. but it feels different, he doesn't call me like he use to. I miss him so much. I don't know if i want him back or not. My heart does saying his strong aggressive take charge personality is hubby material, but my head is like no. Find someone else because he's a dog (liar, cheater, controller, manipulator). But no one is perfect, right? I think I want my scorpio ex boyfriend/future hubby back, but if I had him back there's a chance I could get hurt worst.